First Kiss

The first kiss is given not easily. Sometimes this is real test for a man. How to make so that it would bring happiness, but not disappointment?
Do not fear to be shy. If heart strongly is beaten before the first kiss in you, elbows shake, palms sweat - this is normal, do not survive in regard to this. What it is possible to advise in this situation? Not hurry. Begin from the kiss of hand. Thus, you will gradually conquer your shyness. Yes even girl will understand that you is person considerable, brought up.
Do not fear, that your kisses will not be pleased. It does not occur correct and incorrect kisses. If girl to you is interested, she will find the method to prompt, as it wanted her you to kiss. But if it is indifferent – in that case why you must kiss?

As to understand: when girl does want so that you it would kiss? Certainly, these councils are not universal, but to nevertheless it is possible use by them. Try to observe after the fact, as it at you looks. If girl looks along the sides and in no way wants to concentrate its attention in you, hardly it matured for the kiss. But if it looks to you directly into the eyes and does not remove the view, when you then look at it, most likely, by it with you it is good and she wants so that you would kiss it. It is possible to determine the desire of girl, also, according to that, how closely it to you approaches. The anthropologist OF E.T. Hall in his book invisible distance proves, that in man there are 4 contact zones:
· the zone of public contact (more than 3,5 m) - for the unknown people;
· the zone of social contact (1,2-3,5 m) - for the familiar people;
· the zone of personal contact (0,5 - 1,2 m) - for the relatives and the close ones;
· the zone of intimate contact (0-0,5 m).
Extend hand forward - your zone of intimate contact concludes somewhere at the level of the middle of forearm. In girl it only is less. If girl allows you into her zone of intimate contact - it means…
Not hurry! The majorities of people find the first experiment of kiss into 10-14 years. However, it is not worthwhile to be disturbed because for you already by 16, and you yet did not kiss. It occurs so that for the first time people they kiss already after 20. To overtake its contemporaries in this - the matter is simple. Indeed the main thing - so that it would kiss with the girl, with whom you it connects something larger than kisses.